7 types of BDSM

An important rule: BDSM works only when there are absolute trust and respect between partners. BDSM does not imply cruelty, violence, and coercion - each step should be done only by mutual agreement. The following BDSM types and advices on how to start a BDSM scene will help you better understand this psycho-sexual culture and get a positive experience from it.

1. BDSM Tickling

Interestingly, the parts of the human body that are most vulnerable to tickling (for example, feet, inner thighs, armpits, and elbows) are simultaneously erogenous zones. “Tickle your partner” sounds harmless, but it can be a game of power and submission or a kind of erotic torture. Especially when the partner is restrained and cannot resist tickling.

Tickling type of BDSM should alternate with other caresses: this will create a whole gamut of emotions and sensations. If a partner asks for mercy, then there is no need to be inexorable, otherwise, he will have aversion and a desire to stop the game. Great for this practice is an over-arm tie bondage position.

2. BDSM Role playing

Both partners must agree on the distribution of roles. In BDSM we are talking about domination and submission, sometimes humiliation. Since this can be quite dangerous, you need to set a safe word in advance. This is a word that requires an immediate stop to the game.

A popular among types of BDSM relationships is role-playing game with using leather attributes. A submissive woman wears leather rabbit mask or cat mask. Role-playing games with scenarios of the master and submissive are also common. Accessories for games with dominance are, for example, cuffs or a gag. A partner who has a gag in his mouth should be provided with free access to air - in no case should you close her/his nose!

3. BDSM Binding

For some adherents of different types of BDSM, binding is not at all an element of sadomasochism. And for beginners, this is a great way to try tough games. Handcuffs, restraints, or a choker with a leash for control are used. But be careful: do not tighten too much, otherwise, the partner's arms and legs are numb. The most comfortable are soft leather restraints.

The pleasure of a submissive is that she fully focuses on own feelings and accepts what the partner does with her. A special element of the game is the hogtie, to the ends of which wrists and ankles are attached. Thus, the submissive partner is in full dominant power.

4. BDSM games with fire and ice

Playing with fire involves not using flame, but warm wax. White household candles are best suited for this because their melting point is quite low and liquid wax does not get too hot. Be careful and drip wax onto a partner from a height of at least 3 ft. Start with less sensitive parts of the body and move slowly towards the erogenous zones.

Ice is also a popular BDSM toy. Tie a partner and run ice cubes throughout the body, approaching the genitals. Of course, you need to do this slowly, so as not to dissuade from sexual desire.

5. BDSM Strokes

Strokes - it sounds cruel. Therefore, it is especially important to determine in advance the limits, places, and types of strokes. How? A preliminary conversation, otherwise it does not work. Beating in a BDSM involves slapping with the palm of your hand or accessories such as a whip or paddle. Less painful blows with soft and wide leather straps are suitable for beginners. Good to know: the thinner the straps, the harder the strokes.

Some people like the effects of the show more - the sound of a whip, rather than a slight burning sensation from a whip on the skin. Everyone has different preferences; they are not divided into right and wrong. If there is no experience with blows at all, then you should start with very light slaps. Sensitive places cannot be affected: kidneys, liver, genitals. Do not forget about safe words during this BDSM type.

6. BDSM Sensory deprivation

By and large, BDSM is an interaction of domination and submission. This works great when one of the partners lies blindfolded and thus is in the control of the other. Sensory deprivation means disabling the senses. It can be not only sight but also hearing.

This feeling of helplessness makes erotic experiences especially intense. Remember the kiss: you probably close your eyes to more sharply feel the sensual moment. To close your partner’s eyes, a soft leather blindfold mask is best. It is not only comfortable, soft, and pleasant to the skin but also creates a special BDSM atmosphere.

7. Fetish in BDSM

A certain object, material, or part of the body has a strong erotic effect on the fetishist. It can be a woman’s leg, a black transparent bra, or accessory. Of course, there are more unusual fetishes: leather and patent, a chastity belt, or a maid uniform. Sex in latex suits and masks is also popular among BDSM adherents, which makes sense only if both partners love this material. But it’s worth trying such sex, since latex gives an unusual feeling, and the body in it looks more attractive. And if you also put on a leather harness over, then you definitely will not leave your man indifferent.

Now when you found out types of doms BDSM, you can safely proceed to practice. And let your first experience in this direction bring a sea of pleasure and a storm of indelible impressions.